A Disabled Military Spouse? What?

Hi, everyone!

My name is Amanda Krieger, and I am the newest Experience Contributor for Army Wife Network.

I am an Army wife of four years, and it’s been quite the journey to get here.

I was born in Charleston, South Carolina, the first of four kids. As a result of some medical error and forceps, I had an intracranial bleed and needed a shunt placed. I have since had a few surgeries for partial replacement. I also have a mild case of cerebral palsy.

My childhood was filled with doctor appointments, accommodations, and adaptive activities. I tried everything I could: tee-ball, basketball, soccer, gymnastics, ballet, and horseback riding. Each of these made me feel free. I could be active and disabled. I could be myself.

Despite my high activity level, I wasn’t expected to graduate high school, much less college or grad school. Cerebral palsy brought some learning challenges with it. I overcame the “you’re not going to be able to do that” attitude of my doctors by studying hard and forcing myself to ask for help (as well as a few medical procedures, but those are another story). I now hold a BA in Theology from Ave Maria University, an MA in Theology and Christian Ministry from the Franciscan University of Steubenville, and an MA in English and Creative Writing from Southern New Hampshire University.

l am currently a stay-at-home mom here on Fort Drum. I spend my days taking care of myself (learning how to best fuel my body and exercise) and my family. One more thing you should know about me, as it has shaped my military life experience and what I will share with you in my posts on AWN: I can’t drive.

You may be asking yourself at this point, “Well, how in earth does she do this life, then?”

Patience, dear friends. I look forward to sharing that huge element of my life with you next time.

Print Friendly, PDF & Email
Amanda Krieger

Amanda Krieger

Amanda Krieger is an Army wife and mom. She met her husband while he was enlisting, online to boot, even though at the time they only lived five miles apart. She has BA and MA Theology degrees from Ave Maria University and the Franciscan University of Steubenville, as well as an MA in English and Creative Writing. Her hope is to publish a memoir chronicling her life as a woman with a disability who happens to be married to a military man. A stay-at-home mom and still relatively new to military life, Amanda spends her days taking care of her family and learning as much as she can about military life. She's passionate about body positivity, disability representation, self care, her faith, and good food. She loves to see new places and try local cuisine. Her bucket list for Fort Drum after three years of living there still includes a trip to Canada, and trying all of the Mom and Pop ice cream shops in the area! (Ice cream counts as cuisine, right?) Amanda loves the seasons at Fort Drum but is looking forward to the change of scenery when her family heads to Texas next year. You can find her on YouTube at www.youtube.com/channel/UCn2sHQUHtwwwC677YaNwi7Q

One thought on “A Disabled Military Spouse? What?

  • March 26, 2022 at 12:56 am
    Permalink

    Hello everyone my name Lionel Lindley I am a disabled retired firefighter from Cincinnati Ohio my fiance is stationed overseas although we have never met face-to-face I cannot wait until she is home so that I can hold her in my arms and tell her how much I love her she is due for a rotation home in which I cannot wait I understand let me a civilian husband to a military wife is extremely difficult but I am determined to make this work if anyone has any advice I am not afraid to ask for help please let me know. And thank you to all those men and women that serve

    Reply

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.